Tuesday, September 6, 2011

和你相遇不是用来生气的

有一天,我坐在回家的公车上,乘客很多。一对上班族男女恰巧站在我身边,吸引了我的目光。
可能因为人多,男孩将手臂围挡在女孩的腰上,怕后面的人挤到了她,并轻声地问“累不累?待会想吃些什么?”
只见女孩不耐烦地回答:“我已经够烦了,吃什么都还不先决定好,每次都要问我。”
男孩一脸无辜的低下头,而后说了一段令我印象深刻的话:“让你决定是因为希望能够陪你吃你喜欢的东西,然后看着你拥有满足的笑容,把今天工作中的不愉快暂时忘掉。你工作上所受的委屈我没法帮你,我所能做的也只有这样。”
女孩听了后,满怀愧疚地说声对不起。男孩这才似乎重燃信心般说:“没关系,和你相遇不是用来生气的,只要你开心就好。”而后亲吻了女孩头发。
公车到站,男孩牵着女孩的手下了车,汽车开动,我再回头看看这对情侣,男孩依旧小心翼翼地保护着女孩。
说得多好呀,“和你相遇,不是用来生气的。”两个人相恋,多么来之不易的缘分,何苦要用生气来抹杀所有的幸福。即使当爱情面临小小的险阻,我们也要心平气和地的对待对方,然后用爱和勇敢去化解,而不是用生气的方式来鲁莽对待。


picked from : Facebook

 I read this article and think I do really need to think back how I treated people, not just someone you love but also apply on everyone. Meeting each other is a fate and is a great thing but we always because of our emotion we killed the relationship between each other.

Lord please mold me to be a better person with patient. You always shows your patient, mercy and forgiveness to us, and I want to learn from You and become your light and salt. Amen





Monday, September 5, 2011

Shame

I am not shame how I am to be and who I am with and with my action. But do you?